Rebecca Mielke

Seeing beauty in what you’re naturally drawn to isn’t just pleasant—it’s the anchor for authentic style. Last week I shared what my mentor Carla Mathis taught me about visual favorites and aesthetic preference. Today I’m telling you how I took that wisdom and created The Aesthetic Mirror, a process that helps women discover their style […]

Summary: This episode explores how artistic principles reveal your individual style through the wisdom of Carla Mathis, who discovered that what people love aesthetically is what looks like them. Learn about the “visual favorites” method and how aesthetic preference connects directly to authentic personal style. Understanding your individual style starts with recognizing what you already

The Discovery That Changed My Thinking About Wardrobe Budgets Way back when I was a mom of littles, way before I had heard of generational theory, I quit the job I loved to stay home with the kids. I wouldn’t have said it this way at the time, but one of my strategies to make

Summary: This article explores how the art composition principle of foreground and background affects how you experience your wardrobe. Learn why the same outfit feels different in various settings and how to use art composition to make better wardrobe decisions across seasons, times of day, and indoor versus outdoor environments. Understanding art composition transforms how you

Your signature style isn’t found in a category. It’s created through understanding the principles that guide your choices. In this article, I’m talking about maps versus labels – both in personality systems and in style systems. You’ve probably experienced this: you get typed as something, you follow the recommendations, and somehow you still don’t feel

Understanding neutral undertones is the secret to never having that horrible moment when your perfectly coordinated outfit looks completely wrong in natural light. In this article, I’m diving into what interior design expert Maria Killam discovered about neutral undertones. We’ll explore the nine distinct neutral undertones she identified, how this applies to both your home

Being your true self isn’t just about feeling good or being genuine. There’s actually a measurable financial cost to hiding who you really are. In this article, we’re talking about something most people never consider: the real price tag of not showing up as yourself. We’re not just talking about wardrobe choices or confidence issues.

Style DNA is your personal blueprint for making wardrobe decisions that always feel right. It includes your body Design, your lifestyle Needs, and your essential Aesthetic – all filtered through your unique personality. In today’s episode, we’re looking at fall 2025 trends through this lens. I’ll share the deeper philosophical shifts happening in fashion right

 What if I told you that developing your signature style isn’t just about looking good, it’s actually a spiritual practice? Your signature style journey isn’t just about how to dress, it’s about the real you. The definition of essence is that quality without which a thing would not be what it is. So your signature

Today’s episode is designed to answer the question: what happens when you have extraverted colors but an introverted personality, and how can you make personality and color types work together? So a YouTube viewer wrote to me saying she was professionally typed as a Winter – dark hair, pale skin, high contrast – but she