Rebecca Mielke

Today, we’re challenging seven outdated style rules and replacing them with something much more powerful – your own signature style and essence. We’re breaking rules, specifically those fashion mandates that never made sense in the first place. Here’s the thing about style rules: they feel safe because they provide boundaries, but what makes a person […]

Wardrobe Patterns and Myers-Briggs Explained Today, I want to focus specifically on Myers-Briggs explained in relation to your signature style – particularly how your type influences your tendency toward either expansive or minimalist wardrobes. When I first started investigating Myers-Briggs, I was looking for an established personality system that would speak to personal style. But

Have you ever hoped that somehow wardrobe changes would also change your life? I suppose that’s the idea behind every makeover show or Cinderella story. Well, last December I gave an online Visual Style Discovery workshop. One of the participants said something that caught the attention of the others. Here’s what she said: “The movement

In this article, we’re exploring eight Spring 2025 trends with a focus on finding clarity around whether or not they will work for you. I want to start by acknowledging The Everyday Style School podcast, which recently released their spring trend forecast and inspired today’s episode. What I love about trend forecasts is how they

In this article, we’ll explore what Jungian persona really means and why developing a healthy relationship with your persona is essential for expressing yourself through style.  Before we dive in, I want to invite you to download my free guide, The Wardrobe Pyramid: Five Steps to Defining Enough. What is Jungian Persona? When most people

What are your personal classic wardrobe essentials? When my daughters were growing up, we developed a concept we called the “permanent wardrobe” – pieces we would always like and want to keep, even if just for special occasions. One of my daughters has built an impressive collection of vintage dresses that perfectly suit her. As

Have you ever wondered how to dress classic while staying true to yourself? Last December, when I ran my visual style identity workshop, one of my friends, who I’m going to call Susan for this episode, not her real name, came to it to support me, and during the introductions she shared something with the

Do you get stuck wondering what to wear on a date? Whether it’s a first coffee meetup or Valentines Day with your spouse of twenty years, what you wear should help you feel like yourself. Feeling like yourself in your outfit is the key to being able to forget about what you are wearing and

Body Image Through the Decades How to dress when you’re self-conscious about your tummy? Or any other body part? When I was growing up in the 70s, I was so self-conscious about my legs that I wore jeans to the beach when it was 100 degrees outside. Can you imagine? I made my friends very

In this article I’m talking about a strategy called an ideal week or rule of life. Are you burnt out, my friend? Creating your rule of life is the key to making your style rhythms serve you. In a recent podcast episode, Graham Cochrane shared a framework that’s helping me in my current process of rebuilding